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an invitation to lgbtq+ Africans
The ground is slippery but I’m finding my footing

I must admit that I was poised to relive trauma. Ruminating on unresolved pain has [...]

13
Jul
an invitation to lgbtq+ Africans
Wildfire

My entry into secondary school was marked  By the rumour that I was a lesbian  [...]

10
Jul
Flyer advertising quietly queer stories
Bisexual, Christian and closeted

It took almost four years after being with a girl for the first time for [...]

08
Jul
Flyer advertising quietly queer stories
The truth is we are evolving

As I lay here listening to a Pride playlist, I wish I could say I [...]

06
Jul
Flyer advertising quietly queer stories
I think women are perfect and men are beautiful

I’m not sure of the term I should use for myself. Bisexual seems rigid, pansexual [...]

02
Jul
an invitation to lgbtq+ Africans
Love is beautiful in all its forms

My first pride, like for a lot of Nigerians, was not in Nigeria. I had [...]

30
Jun
an invitation to lgbtq+ Africans
Maybe I’m on the Asexuality spectrum

I don’t remember when my interest in girls started, but it was in the little [...]

29
Jun
an invitation to lgbtq+ Africans
I am a gay man in Nigeria

I am a gay man in Nigeria. It took me a really long time to [...]

26
Jun
Flyer advertising quietly queer stories
I’ve paid my dues and my time has come

When I was 3 years old, my best friend was a freckled little girl who [...]

24
Jun
Flyer advertising quietly queer stories
I just want to love and be loved

I’m not sure when it started.  When my cousins and I played Mummy and Daddy [...]

22
Jun
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